First dates can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. There’s the potential for something new to blossom out of it, but there is also the horrifying fear that it will go down as one of the worst dates in history. There are many factors that can contribute to being asked to go on a second date. While this may seem complex, it’s actually quite simple:

Self-confidence

There is nothing hotter than a woman who is confident in who she is. Most men want to avoid women who have a lot of self-doubt and low self-esteem. Be proud of who you are, let your confidence show, and you’ll really impress a man.

A non-complainer

Your food is too cold. Your drink is too watered down. Your job sucks and doesn’t pay you enough. You hate your new purse. There is nothing worse than going on a date with a woman who does nothing but gripe and complain. Sure, we all have things that we need to vent about, but complaining on a first date definitely sets the wrong mood. Men look for a woman who doesn’t appear to be a big complainer who gets upset about anything and everything.

Baggage-free

No man wants to go on a date with a woman who talks about her ex, even if you mention him just once. Going on a date and being part of the dating world should mean that you are well over your ex. Men who end up on a date with a woman who vents about her ex typically go into full-on ignore mode once that happens. Men look for a woman who may have some baggage, but doesn’t let that baggage impact her current dating status and experiences.

When She Stays Off Her Phone, It Tells Me She Is Interested In Me

Men are more likely to ask you on a second date when they find you engaged in conversation with him. He’ll notice if you’re actually in the present moment with him or if you’re a million miles away. Generally, when you spend all your time checking your phone, he’s going to assume you’re in that “million miles away” category. It’s a big tell-tale sign that someone isn’t interested in you when they prefer the company of their phone rather than the company of you.

Sexiness

On a first date, no woman wants to appear to be out on the prowl and looking for some time between the sheets. However, there are plenty of ways to be sexy without overdoing it. Men look for a woman who can be sexy without even trying. There’s no need to wear extremely revealing clothing or to talk sexually. Wear some nice perfume. Accent your eyes with some makeup. Wear a pop of red, either on the lips or on your nails. All of these things convey sexiness without going overboard.

If She’s Rude There Won’t Be A Second Date

No one wants to be with someone rude and obnoxious. And there are few things less attractive than someone who is rude to others, specifically the wait staff when you are out to eat! Well, guys think so too. Considering most people choose to be on their best behavior during a first date, in order to make a good first impression, being rude is very telling for him. Whether it’s the wait staff, or simply just another person who accidentally bumped into you, how you treat those around you says a lot about who you are as a person.

“Men are Attracted To Girls Who Smile A Lot”

Smiling is often attributed to being happy and comfortable. All of which on a date tell the guy you’re having a good time. Smiling a lot on the first date will signal to him that you are enjoying yourself, which will boost his confidence in you agreeing to go on a second date with him. That extra confidence will definitely lead to him asking you out on a second date. After all, if you think the person you’ll ask out would say no, chances are you wouldn’t ask them out. Not only do guys see smiling as a sign that you are having a good time, but they also find it attractive. When asked about attractive physical traits in a woman, men were quick to rank a nice smile as one of the most attractive features they notice right away.

Independence

Men like women who are independent and successful. There’s nothing hotter than a woman who has her life in line with a good job, items of her own, and an education. Having independence shows that you are not only in control of your life, but it also shows that you have the drive to succeed and to make a name for yourself. Independence is definitely attractive to a man, so don’t be afraid to flaunt your career or your degree.

First Impressions Are Important, The First Thing Men Notice Is If She Is On Time

First impressions are everything and the absolute first thing anyone will notice on a date is punctuality. Whether your meeting somewhere or picking one another up, being ready on time, and being on time for a date is the first thing anyone will notice. When you’re on time for the first date, it leaves a positive feeling with your date. Men look at a girl who is on time as being responsible and taking the date serious – which translates to you being interested in him. Now, this doesn’t mean that sometimes there are circumstances out of our control that make us late. When this occurs just send him a quick text, or call him to let him know about your delay. He will understand and respect that. After all, nothing feels worse than waiting for your date not knowing if they’ll actually show up!

A woman who says “thank you”

Some men love to prove that chivalry isn’t dead. However, there are some women out there who expect chivalry without any expectation of saying thank you. When a man holds the door for you or scoots out your chair before you sit down, don’t think twice about saying thank you. A man likes to know that his actions are appreciated, so a thank you here and there can definitely go a long way, especially on the first date.

When She Stays Off Her Phone, It Tells Him She Is Interested In Me

Men are more likely to ask you on a second date when they find you engaged in conversation with him. He’ll notice if you’re actually in the present moment with him or if you’re a million miles away. Generally, when you spend all your time checking your phone, he’s going to assume you’re in that “million miles away” category. It’s a big tell-tale sign that someone isn’t interested in you when they prefer the company of their phone rather than the company of you. In fact, many people use their phones as a buffer or a shield. It’s easier to retreat into the familiarity of your phone rather than converse with someone you don’t necessarily know. Putting your phone away lets him know you’re interested in getting to know him.

How She Treats Others Tells A Lot About Her. If She’s Rude There Won’t Be A Second Date

No one wants to be with someone who is rude and obnoxious. And there are few things less attractive than someone who is rude to others, specifically the wait staff when you are out to eat! Well, guys think so too. Considering most people choose to be on their best behavior during a first date, in order to make a good first impression, being rude is very telling for him. Whether it’s the wait staff, or simply just another person who accidentally bumped into you, how you treat those around you says a lot about who you are as a person. Most people wouldn’t want to be surrounded by rude or mean people let alone date them. Men are quick to decide if there is going to be a second date or not simply based on your behavior to those around you.

Men Really Attracted To Girls Who Smile A Lot

Smiling is often attributed to being happy and comfortable. All of which on a date tell the guy you’re having a good time. Smiling a lot on the first date will signal to him that you are enjoying yourself, which will boost his confidence in you agreeing to go on a second date with him. That extra confidence will definitely lead to him asking you out on a second date. After all, if you think the person you’ll ask out would say no, chances are you wouldn’t ask them out. Not only do guys see smiling as a sign that you are having a good time, but they also find it attractive. When asked about attractive physical traits in a woman, men were quick to rank a nice smile as one of the most attractive features they notice right away.

If She Has A Sense Of Humor. Men Like Being With A Girl Who Laughs Often

Another sign of someone having a good time on a date is when they laugh. It also shows off their sense of humor. Men can find a woman’s laugh to be endearing and even cute. They also like to know that she is able to laugh at things, whether it’s a joke or a funny situation. Laughing along with him on a date also lets him know that you find him funny. He’ll be able to feel more comfortable around you knowing that you’re comfortable around him. This will make him feel like you’re an easy person to be around, which in turn will make him want to spend more time around you; hence, he’s more likely to ask you out on a second date.

When A Girl Compliments Him On A Date, He will  Feel More Confident That She’s Into  Him As Well

Compliments are always nice. Whether it’s a compliment on an outfit we put together, a compliment on our smile, or our work ethic, we tend to get an ego boost when someone pays us a compliment. While this is generally associated with women, the same holds true for men. Men love being on the receiving end of a compliment just as much as women. A simple “You look nice,” remark will definitely make him feel good about himself and more secure throughout the date.

If She’s A Family Girl, He Will Imagine You Getting Along With His Mom

Okay, so this doesn’t mean talking about your plans to start a family on the first date. Actually, that might be coming on a bit too strong too fast and send him running.

Rather, just talking about your home life, and your family is enough for any guy to tell if you’re a family-oriented girl or not. While it may seem a little soon, he’ll start picturing how you might get along with his family, particularly his mom. Men don’t want to date women they feel won’t get along with his family. If he’s you as someone he can take home to mom, he’ll be more likely to ask you out on a second date in order to continue to explore the possibility of the relationship with you!